Did He Cheat or Was He Raped?

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My long term boyfriend and I were doing a long distance relationship at the time. He got drunk with his friends and decided to do Ecstacy and cocaine that night as well. He doesn’t remember much from that night but he does remember being at a bar, riding in the passenger seat of a car, walking up stairs, and waking up in a random place with his pants off and a condom on (nothing inside and he was soft) and a bottom half naked girl sitting on the side of him. Once he realized the situation, he told her to stop and turned over away from her to fall back asleep cause he was too waisted to stand up. He later woke up and asked her for a ride home cause he didn’t know where he was when he walked outside. His friends don’t remember him talking to a girl that night and he feels that she took advantage of him. He also says that this girl was not attractive to him and over weight, someone he usually wouldn’t go after.

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Answer by Fool on the Hill
I’d say hes honest, because he told you. He could have just kept it from you but he told you.

Answer by atarigirl2
He cheated. Men are dogs.