What Do You Do When He Doesn’t Want Your Help?

Question by cinnamongrrlnj: What do you do when he doesn’t want your help?
My boyfriend is on a downward spiral. He is pushing away all his family and people who care about him, including me. He quit his job, has no money left, he spent all the money he had left partying and doing drugs. he’s doing cocaine and other things he never did before and he doesn’t see anything wrong with this behavior. He blames me for crowding him and has been staying away for days. He’s given up on himself and is doing everything he can to get everyone who loves him to give up on him as well. He just stopped caring about everything and I don’t know what to do anymore. How can we get him to see what he is doing to himself? Is there any hope for him at all?
He doesn’t want or think he needs help

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Answer by x-Confused-lil-Devil-x
i think its great your all there for him….but i think at the moment he just wants his space..

im not saying back off…..bu jus give him time alone…but make sure he knows ur there for him when he needs you!

hopefuly hell come round. you could ask him if he wants help to get himself back on track…..you can only try…but dont crowd him or anything..

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Answer by loveradsrn
pray for him ….i will light a candle and pray for him too

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