Boyfriend Problem…. How Do I Handle This Situation….. Any Ideas???
Question by cna1970: Boyfriend problem…. how do I handle this situation….. any ideas???
My boyfriend’s a coke addict. He got arrested last summer & had no choice but to get help. He lives in a “sober house” & goes to meetings every night.
He’s doing great & I’m proud of him… he’s never looked healthier plus… he’s got $ $ now but…. I know his getting “clean” was “forced”…. he had no choice. If he hadn’t gotten busted I’m sure he’d still be “using” but…. he’s clean now & I’m proud of him.
My problem is he keeps throwing my pain meds in my face & tells me that he hangs with people who are “clean/sober” but yet his girlfriend is not “clean/sober”. He’s demanding I stop taking my pain meds & calls me an addict & wants me to go to meetings with him.
I’m upset cuz it took 3 un-successful surgeries….many yrs of 24/7 pain…alot of missed work & many sleepless nights before I asked for help cuz I was scared to be called a drug seeker.
I don’t abuse them… I don’t get high. I’m finally living somewhat normally w/75% less pain. Advice? I don’t want 24/7 pain again.
Best answer:
Answer by fewstardust
If the pain meds you’re taking are something that you need then you should prove it to him. Take him to a doctor appointment with you. Then he can hear the doctor say it and then he’ll believe you.
He’s probably just frustrated or worried that he might go back to using if you have “drugs” in the house, prescribed or not.
Answer by Leroy Jenkins
Leave him now.
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