I’m Scared for Him Help Me Out Yahoo?
Question by .: I’m scared for him help me out Yahoo?
OK, let me give you some background of my cousin: he’s 19, dropped out of high school (for various reasons such as living in the ghettos his whole life, divorced parents, guys picking on him just because he gets a lot of attention from girls and because he’s the toughest, most popular guy at school; he’s has friends that died; he never knew his blood father; lives in abusive household, etc), he never got a GED, he quit even trying in school because it was just too hard; etc. Basically, if you knew his whole life story, it would make a GROWN man cry. I’m not even kidding. I think the only thing that really kept him going was his gift in sports and fighting (he NEVER lost a fight in his life, even when seven/eight guys jumped him last year), and probably me since we’re really close. Any way, lately he’s been involved in stuff that is truly ruining him (he’s addicted to pretty much all drugs out there, including marijuana, pot, cocaine, weed, etc) he drinks all the time and always parties, he stole a couple of times, he’s been lying, he now has a bad reputation with the cops, etc. About… April 2010?…he got engaged to this girl and at first they used to be totally in love then he just kinda..drifted away. They are still in love and engaged and everything, but according to her posts on Facebook, he’s been “distant” to her. And lately, I think they’ve been kinda fighting (my cousin claimed that his girlfriend has been talking to someone on Tumblr “the same way she talks to me” and then his girlfriend was all like, “put that out of your head! None of that is true!’ I love you, I’d never, etc. Then everything seemed back to normal, but I’m not so sure. Then last night, I had a dream that my cousin was cheating on his fiance and she (my cousin’s fiance) was crying. I’ve predicted a death in a dream before, and i’ve predicted WAY too much stuff in dreams and they came true, so I kinda have a gut feeling that this is true. Basically, my cousin has also been distant to me too (apparently he’s been distant to everyone). He’s my best friend, my rock, my partner in crime, my favourite cousin, my favourite person, and I’m scared for him. What can I do? I’m 15?
Best answer:
Answer by Nemesis
What James said, call the police and remain Annonymous
Answer by Praise
try to talk to him. Since you are close to him.