PREGNANCY SCARE, Do Not Know What to Do PLEASE HELP!?
Question by Houston GIrl: PREGNANCY SCARE, do not know what to do PLEASE HELP!?
I live in Houston TX. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. We’ve never had a pregnancy scare like this before. We are planning to stay together no matter what, etc. He is about to be 20 in March and I will be 19 in June
It is Dec 15, two weeks ago we had sex and the condom broke so he pulled out and we never finished. We don’t know what could have gone wrong, but we think it might have been pre-cum, but we don’t know because the condom HAS broke before but something like this never happened. So we didn’t think anything of it at all.
I took a line test a few days ago on Wednesday and it came out negative. I took one today, Saturday morning and the first pee came out POSITIVE, then I took a digital test an hour later which came out negative. We were calm for awhile but then afraid again because we read that I already “peed out” all the hormone on the first test, which came out positive and there might’ve not been enough hormone left for the digital one to even detect anything. We are very afraid. It isn’t time for my period yet so we’re not sure.
If I might be, we will be okay because we have both agreed to get an abortion or to take the RU846 pill. We even think it may be a “chemical pregnancy”, which is a very early miscarriage and some women don’t even know it happens.
I have had various and many cases of emotional abuse in the past, my mother passed away when I was 15 and I have always been the “problem child” of the family even though I’ve never done drugs or drank alcohol, never been drunk, lost my virginity at 18 (compared to some people nowadays losing it at 14 or 15), I have never done anything actually bad. Because of my emotional abuse and how my dad would react, I don’t know what to do. My boyfriend and I haven’t told anyone yet because we don’t know for sure, but his parents would want my dad to also know.
I should let you know that my boyfriend and I are very good teenagers, we both go to school, he has never been into drugs or alcohol either. We never planned on this happening, we’re always so happy to talk about our future together and how we want to get married after college, after we can finish our education in college before we think about spending money and all that. We never NEVER planned on this happening and wish to God that this can’t happen.
If I told my dad what may happen, he would kick me out most likely and then I don’t know from there. I would rather leave my house than stay in this situation because I will get a lot more emotional abuse than I already do, and I don’t trust that my dad WONT try to use physical abuse on me, or even to my boyfriend. I would have to finish up my Spring Semester somehow and find somewhere to live, and then drop out because I won’t have money to go to school. There’s a 50/50 chance I won’t be able to live with my boyfriend right when this happens because he goes to school 30 minutes away from me ( i go to a local college and am getting basics done), and he lives there with on campus housing so it would be illegal for me to stay with him and I can’t afford an apartment together in Houston, even with my financial aid money that I get back.
I just don’t know what to do, I never planned on this happening and I don’t even know FOR SURE if I am pregnant or not yet, we are waiting another 3 days to take a digital test, and then I will know for sure. But we are still getting very afraid.
PLEASE HELP any advice will help
Best answer:
Answer by c
It is very rare to get a positive. Take a good 5 day early test first thing in the AM and you should know for sure.
If you don’t want a baby do what you need to do but you have to live with the decision you make.
Answer by ????? %
dear Houston Girl at least and temporary custody to a family or relatives?(when everything is well you can keep him\her without abortion)or at least give the baby up for OPEN or close adoption(even in an other country if you want to)….cause adoption or custody so life is better than abortion…
then there’s also open adoption so you can follow your baby growing up 🙂
love and life are sacrifices but they’re better than abortion!
so please the most important thing is:not abort,then I suggest keeping him\her and you see his\her “THANKS”in his\her smile because you didn’t abort him\her despite your difficulties!
then adoption or custody is better than abortion that doesn’t let the baby live and hurts you too.