What Finally Made You Say “I Want a Divorce”?

Question by missygoodytwoshoes: what finally made you say “I want a divorce”?
My husband and I have been together for many years and two kids- we are going through the roughest time in our marraige right now. I am considering a separtion or possibly a divorce. Nothing like an affair, alcohol, drug use or abuse going on. We just do not seen to be compatible anymore and the kids say that they want to be with me more and more. I really am not sure what to do right now. What made you finally decide enough was enough?
Ok – time to clarify what is going on. My husband has a life long learning disability and it can be hard for him to follow conversations and short/long term memory not so good. Main problem is when he is unhappy with his life or job – he shuts the kids and me out. Having a recurring problem with job (finding and keeping) and just not appreciating all the good things and people in life is wearing us all down. have the kids and me go down with him.
Sorry, forgot to add that because of disability, concerned that counseling would not be effective.

Best answer:

Answer by Dawanna J
When my ex picked our three year old up by the hair of her head and threw her down, ripping out her hair.

Answer by danny23
Good luck to you!